1. She prefers a 9mm caliber
2. Light-weight
3. Left-handed - she insists on an external safety, so must either have a left-handed model (thumb safety on right), or ambidextrous (like the springfield XD9)
4. She doesn't want a pink gun
5. She's not a fan of full-size (harder to conceal) or smallest sub-compacts (she feels they look like toy guns)
6. She wants a semi-auto, not a revolver
I have a Glock 19, which she doesn't mind shooting at the range, it just doesn't feel "quite right" in her hands and the lack of a thumb safety switch is a deal-buster for her on Glocks. (The one she liked the most for feel is the Ruger LC9, but the safety is on the wrong side and Ruger only makes a few left-handed bolt action rifles, nothing else.)
So.....post those suggestions, got 6 months to find her something she'll love so she'll have it under the Christmas tree!
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