Kalrog wrote:Logical... up to this.
The Annoyed Man wrote:I would expect common courtesy to dictate that the individual would just automatically leave their weapon in the car unless they had first asked my permission. I trust all of my friends. My friends are all welcome to carry if they feel the need. Strangers have not yet earned my trust, and in that event, I want to be the only one armed.
Common courtesy? To disarm? Heck no! Common courtesy would be don't draw on me - don't do anything to make me think that I need to protect myself from you. Okay. But I don't disarm when going to a stranger's house because they aren't going to know unless the NEED arises, and then I better be armed.
Kalrog, That's fine... ...
in your house. In
MY house, if you come in armed without my permission and I don't
know you well enough to trust you with a gun inside my walls where my wife and children live, and I find out about it, I'm going to eject you by whatever means necessary. It is MY home, and you have no rights there that I don't permit you. End of story. You don't like them rules, don't come around my home. If you are my friend - and a few of my friends do carry - then I have no objections, and I know that their armed presence actually adds to the security of my home. But if I don't know you or anything about you, all bets are off.
I am sorry if that sounds rude to you, but people who think they have rights in my home without my permission are being twice as rude as I am. On the day that you start paying MY mortgage, and MY property taxes; on the day that you assume responsibility for the protection of MY family, THEN you get to have a say in what goes on in MY home. As long as
I pay for those things and the deed is in MY name, and the responsibility for protecting my home and its occupants is MY responsibility, then your right to exercise your RKBA
without restriction ends at my private property line, unless I invite you to exercise them on my property.
It's not that I think that you personally and specifically, here on this board, are a bad person or irresponsible with a gun, its that I don't
know whether or not you are those things when you show up at my door as a total stranger. It is that I am a small time private citizen with a lot of money invested in my (small) private property and house, with a wife and family who reside within its walls for whose safety I am responsible, and
NO stranger not acting in his official capacity as an LEO has the moral authority to contravene my rules while physically on my personal private property. We're not talking about public shoppings malls here. We are talking about someone's home. Now, I am a reasonable guy, and if you, the visitor stranger, would take the time to establish a trusting relationship with me and seek to find out how I might feel about the issue, I might well change my mind about you and relax. But if I don't know you well enough to trust you, then you can just leave your gun in the car because my right to prevent armed strangers from entering my home supersedes your right to walk around armed inside my walls.
BTW, I've made it a point to get to know the tradesmen I've hired to provide various services to my home - A/C, electrical, contracting, etc. - and there isn't one of them who ever gave me reason to regret my decision to trust them. I like developing that relationship, because I want to be able to hire them again if I need their services and have been satisfied with their work in the past. Heck, we often wind up talking about guns and hunting, etc. So far, they've all been good old boys. But that being said, I still insist on my right to know if they are armed on my property if I have not yet had the chance to forge that relationship with them.
I have been very pro 2nd amendment and RKBA for a long time now, and I have been very much in favor of legal concealed carry for a long time too, although I lived for a long time in a state where lawful concealed carry was nearly impossible. But I have to say that, ever since I have come into contact with the Texas CHL community, it is absolutely astounding to me how many people who otherwise seem to be good citizens have the arrogance to assume that their RKBA rights trump a home owners rights inside his own home. I guess that makes it OK for me to stand at someone's front door and loudly recite the Communist Manifesto with a megaphone on full volume until my voice fails because my 1st Amendment rights trump the home owner's right to a little peace and quiet inside the walls of his house.
It is a really sad commentary.
“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.”
― G. Michael Hopf, "Those Who Remain"
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