Open Carry isn't for everyone, and I fully respect everyone's right to carry or not carry either way. No one owes me or anyone else an explanation of why they choose one way or the other.
That said, many of us will cringe at the thought of certain folks open carrying because of their appearance, demeaner, and/or lack of social skills. Just as we cringe when some well-intentioned folks on our side of the fence do more harm than good when they try to argue for our liberties.
Here are my personal rules for values and beliefs discussions in general and especially for when I open carry (which is whenever and wherever the law allows):
- Be the most polite, presentable (dress well and clean), and articulate person you can be (When someone departs from a discussion with me, I don't want their impression to be that I was rude, smelly, crude, or uneducated)
- Politely and gracefully withdraw from discussions before they turn into heated arguments
- Respect the right of others to express their opinion, and never display frustration when people spout missinformation or even outright lies
- KNOW THE LAW - make certain you are up to date and educated on the law as of today!
- NEVER fabricate, never regurgitate fabrications, and never lie
- Don't engage in a discussion if it is obvious that it will degenerate into something other than a freindly, intelligent discourse
The greatest harm to our neverending battle for individual liberty comes from our own brothers and sisters when they display negative emotion or unattractive traits or mislead on the truth in front of those who are undecided about individual liberty, freedom, and the United States Constitution. These discussions often have non-partiocipants listening nearby who need to be left with a good impression of the sort of person who supports liberty.
Here's a closely related quote from my reply post to the thread at
http://texaschlforum.com/viewtopic.php? ... 6#p1048235 :
I don't worry about backlash from private businesses. I like the fact that they have the right to decide whether non criminals can bring a gun into their building as much as I like my right to choose not to shop there. A business I've been a patron of for the past seventeen years put up 30.06 and 07 signs last week. I left my shoulder rig in the truck and went in to tell the owner how much I'd appreciated the convenience of his location and friendly service over the years and that I was disappointed that I wouldn't be able to keep shopping there.
He asked me if I was moving. I told him no and explained that every time I'd been in his store in the past I had a loaded firearm on my person and he and his employees had probably never been safer than when I was in his store.
I told him I would keep an eye out and if I saw those signs go down I'd start shopping there again.
He said he appreciated my candor and he would think about it.
When I drove by today the signs were gone, so I stopped in with my polished stainless Kimber on my side and bought a pack of smokes.
He was grinning ear to ear.