wgoforth wrote:Church minister here....yes, to be told verbally is permenent until told otherwise. BUT, I have never considered security anywhere to be anyone of official staff to be authorized to give such notice. For ME, I would play shut mouth, check my concealment, and carry until such time as board member, minister, etc tells you not to. IF you feel you could talk to them about it, well and good. Downside is you risk being given verbal notice.
That is the key.... Whether it is a church or a business, the question is, "Does the person who gave the notice have the authority to give such notice?" Let's take a shoe store as an example.... You sit down and bend over to try on a pair of shoes, and the sales clerk sees your gun printing and informs you that your concealed carry weapon is not permitted in that store. Is he/she giving you their personal opinion and preference; or is he/she informing you of a written store policy? The former means you can ignore him/her. The latter means you have to leave.
Churches are no different. So if the security officer in question (doesn't matter if they are off-duty LEO or not) informs you that you cannot carry your gun in church, are they informing you of their own opinion, or are they informing you of an established church policy of which the church leadership are aware? If the former, you can ignore that person. If the latter, then you have to leave. Church security people don't write the policy. Church leaders do. Security makes their recommendations, and then the leadership chooses to follow or ignore those recommendations based on their spiritual principles. So, you have to find out
in advance of any such confrontation whether or not your church actually has such a rule. If they don't, you can tell the officer to place his concerns where the sun don't shine—diplomatically, of course, and feel free to "church it up" all you need to in order to not deliberately offend. If the church
does have such a rule, then you have a decision of conscience to make as to whether or not you can continue to belong to a church that does not value your life enough to permit you the means of defending it. To each his/her own, and I wouldn't criticize you for choosing to stay; but I would personally start looking elsewhere unless the senior pastor could articulate an insurmountable
spiritual reason in support of their policy.
Fortunately for me at
my church, that is not likely to be a decision I'll ever have to face. I genuinely feel bad for people who do because, as any solid believer knows, the words "church home" carry a depth of meaning that may not be entirely understandable to non-believers.
“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.”
― G. Michael Hopf, "Those Who Remain"
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