RocTrac wrote: Looks like time to have a sit down with the Wife again.
Good luck there. I spoke with my wife and she said, "Oh, don't worry about it. It's not going to happen to us. Why do you think you need a gun?" I told her that nobody needs a gun, but it's nice to have one when you finally do need one. Having one is a form of insurance. No statistics nor logic has ever swayed any human being I've ever met. If your wife can be swayed by logic, then hold on to her, she's a keeper. My wife still won't allow me to keep a gun for defense. One guy who lives down the street from me raped a 12 year old girl and now works in a... (drum roll)
tanning salon. Gee, I wonder if he's secretly making videos of his clients? So, after telling my wife about this guy, she looked upset. "What a (insert colorful metaphor here)," she said. "That's why I carry," I said, "C'mon. In order to protect you, don't you think I should carry..." "I'm tired. I don't want to talk about it. I don't want to think about upsetting things like this. I'm going to bed," she interrupted.
Nope, high dollar homes and neighborhoods are NOT immune to heinous crimes like murder and rape. A friend of a co-worker who lived in a
half million dollar home neighborhood was
raped by her neighbor!!! Actually, it's worse if the perpetrator of the crime is educated and intelligent. The creep sneaked up behind her by jumping the fence (he probably had boxes and/or a ladder on his side of the fence) and bashed her head in when she turned around to go back into the house after doing some yard work in the back yard. When she woke up, she found herself nude and sexually assaulted on the floor. The educated and intelligent perp was careful NOT to leave any forensic evidence. She also did not see his face. However, she knows it is him because he told her details about the inside of her home that he couldn't possibly have known unless he had been inside her home. He also taunted her with snide remarks about the rape whenever he "bumped" into her while she went out to check her mailbox. The cops refused to arrest him due to a lack of forensic evidence and because she did not actually see him commit the rape (he knocked her unconscious from behind).
You know, so many suburbanites are soft, and clueless. They are ill-prepared to defend themselves from evil and they ridicule those who do prepare. I would often hang out in South Dallas to eat barbecue from such tasty places like Brothers Barbecue or Hardeman's. South Dallas residents are a lot more street smart than happy and clueless suburbanites. For example, a South Dallas momma shopping at the local Minyards will clutch her purse like her life depended on it. A suburbanite would do stupid stuff like put her purse in a shopping cart, then turn around to do something else while her purse is unattended behind her. South Dallas homes have bars on their windows. Suburbanite homes have easy to break plain glass windows.
One time, my neighbor's kids were walking with a strange man. They were walking towards a car parked down the street. The kids looked reluctant to go with him. The kids were struggling. I thought that it was suspicious that the car was not parked directly in front of my neighbor's house. So, I drove my car onto the sidewalk in front of him and said, "Howdy, how're you doing (with a smile)?" I then asked him to identify himself. Refusing to identify himself, he smiled, said, "It's O.K." and continue to herd the kids towards his car by walking around my car. So, I call my neighbor on the cell phone and ask him about the guy. "Hey, don't harass my kids' therapist," he said, "why are you so paranoid? Nothing's going to happen to my daughters." The proper response is to THANK ME for being a concerned neighbor. Instead, he yelled at me and ridiculed me for being "paranoid."
The crime statistics for "rough" parts of town like Fair Park and Oak Cliff have LOWER crime statistics than many suburban neighborhoods. You might be surprised to find that it is because suburbanites are soft and clueless. You might be surprised to find that it is precisely this atitude that draws all the kiddie rapists into suburbia. Predators find suburban hunting grounds full of easy prey. No neighborhood is safe from predators. You might be surprised to find that the only thing that makes you safe is YOU.