VoiceofReason wrote:To the annoyed man.
“Then there is the question of skill level and competence. Someone without proper training, or without enough physical capacity, can actually get in the way of the efforts of more qualified people. I'm a fat older man who is a competent (but not great) shot at the range when nobody is shooting back, and I have some physical limitations. I've never had any "tactical" training. In fact, one of the reasons (not the only reason, but one of them) I obtained my CHL was because I am increasingly physically unable to defend myself by any other means.”
You and I have some things in common. I am 63, not overweight but disabled and walk with a cane. I too obtained my CHL because I am increasingly physically unable to defend myself and my wife by any other means.
We are discussing personal values and there is no right or wrong.
Personally I consider myself a good shot but if I did not have a gun, I know I would put myself between a shooter and a child or another defenceless person younger than myself and take the bullet. No calculating to it. I am not a hero. I am approaching the end of my life and if there is any possibility I could give a young person the opportunity to enjoy as much life as I have, and to make the contribution I have, it would be worth it.
Many others have done as much.
And like you say,
who the victim is is part of the equation for me. But honestly, there would have to be some compelling reason for me to take a bullet for someone else who is a stranger to me. There is no question that I would do it for my wife and/or son, whether or not I was armed. That's what a man does. To protect a small child? Possibly. To protect a pregnant woman? Possibly. To protect a 20 year old man who is perfectly capable but who will not fight for his
own life? No, probably not. But in each of those scenarios, I begin with the assumption that I am armed, because I simply don't get dressed in the morning and go out of the house without strapping on a gun. I am currently 57, which is why I used the words "
older man," and not "
old man." I may be closer to the end of my days than the beginning, but I'm not dead yet and I have at least another 20-25 years in me, hopefully more. I love life, and I'm unwilling to needlessly throw it away; so I am going to be very discriminating about under which circumstances I would be willing do so (take a bullet). And
any such assumption includes the fact that I am not going down without a fight. If I step in front of bullet aimed at a helpless person, it will be while I am shooting back, 'cause I don't want to die.
The problem is that each of these scenario discussions is highly speculative, because until one has actually had to face the real deal, none of us really knows how we are going to react. Some of the most timid soldiers go on to become the greatest heroes, while some of the biggest chest thumpers turn out to be some of the biggest cowards. Most of us will (hopefully) go through our entire lives without ever being tested. But since I don't know for sure how I will react, I consequently hesitate to say with finality "I would do such," or "I would do so." I'm no hero either, and I don't want to be one. Ultimately, if given the choice between being a live jackal or a dead lion, I pick being a live lion. I just hope that I'm man enough to back that up, and I also hope that I never have to find out.
(edited to correct the spelling of "dead" in the last paragraph...)
“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. And, weak men create hard times.”
― G. Michael Hopf, "Those Who Remain"
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