sugar land dave wrote:Original Poster,
Responsibility is an important thing. It does not make you important, rather it is the tasks you have been made responsible for that are important. It is a trust you have been granted by someone who themselves have a responsibility to determine that you are qualified and able to perform and bear the necessary burdens of some portion of society. The greater the responsibility, the greater the vetting is that a candidate for a responsible position must pass through.
As a CHL holder you were seen by an instructor licensed by an agency of the State of Texas. If that instructor does not believe you are capable, he does not have to give his approval. He actually has had "eyes on" experience with you and fulfilled his responsibility by determining that in his mind you were capable of meeting the requirements of conceal carry. In Austin, someone in the DPS office investigated your request for license, reviewed all necessary factors, and made a determination in your favor. Each level of government that the DPS person contacted had the responsibility to determine if you were a person qualified. The fact that you have your license in your pocket means that all had an opportunity to declare that they had reservations about you, but none did.
At some point in life, you must trust yourself as others have trusted you.
In William Shakespeare's play, Hamlet's companion Laertes is given advice by his father, Polonius. In modern English it is basically:
Don't tell all you think, or put into action thoughts out of harmony or proportion with the occasion. Be friendly, but not common; don't dull your palm by effusively shaking hands with every chance newcomer. Avoid quarrels if you can, but if they are forced on you, give a good account of yourself. Hear every man's censure (opinion), but express your own ideas to few. Dress well, but not ostentatiously. Neither borrow nor lend. And guarantee yourself against being false to others by setting up the high moral principle of being true to yourself.
In Olde English, the most important part read:
"This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man."
Welcome OP, and may you make good decisions and stand bravely when accounting yourself to others.
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