seamusTX wrote:KBCraig wrote:Remember, folks... there are many ways to land on the "registered sex offender" list these days.
Many are the result of ugly divorces. I read about one woman who was charged because she got out of the shower naked in front of her children. They might beat the rap if they can afford a good lawyer, but they often can't.
In some states, all sex between minors is a crime unless they are married. It's even possible to marry a young girl in some states and be considered a sex offender in others.
- Jim
Something like this happened to my cousin. He was a youth minister and at a youth camp that I went to as a kid. The boys and girls are separated. My cousin was a dorm pastor, so he stayed in a room with a bunch of boys. A pastor's wife came around to that side of the dorm where she wasn't supposed to be and apparently they had the door to the dorm open. Everyone was taking showers because they were getting ready for chapel, which they have every night. He walks around the corner and his towel falls off or he dropped it because he was about to get dressed. No big deal anyway, since everyone was always popping each other with towels when I was a kid. The showers aren't one big stall, but it's like going to the gym, where you get dressed in the actual dorm. Some people walk around naked.
So anyway, she sees him naked and accuses him of molesting boys. They even got some boys to say he did something. He made the Dallas Morning News as a result of this. He voluntarily took a lie detector test and passed with no problems. The boys that said he did something later recanted their stories, since nothing did really happen. He went to court and was found not guilty of all charges, so is not a sex offender.
Turns out that the pastor's wife sued the camp because they were looking for cash. They ended up getting a couple hundred grand and the pastor and his wife were divorced shortly afterwards.
I've known this guy my whole life and one thing I can tell you for SURE is that he isn't interested in boys or men, period. He ain't gay. He loved being a youth minister and still was for several years after he was exonerated and still works for his father's church. Just goes to show that if someone accuses you of some sex crime, you have to prove that you aren't guilty. It's supposed to be the other way around.
I'm also not saying that real sex offenders should be given a break either. Those guys that showed up in Murphy obviously had some intent to do something. They even had the chat logs. Those are the people that should be locked up. Not someone that is accused because someone has a grudge against them or wants money.
"People sleep peaceably in their beds at night only because hard men stand ready to do violence on their behalf."- George Orwell
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