AEA wrote:Gun first is the way to go. Then practice and get real good/comfortable with it.
I want to caution you though on buying anything just by size/sight/caliber.
You should find a range that has guns for rent and try shooting a variety.
Then, based on that experience, shop for and buy the gun that works best for you (keeping conceal ability and cost of ammo, etc in mind. Also availability of holsters or other carry methods for whatever you actually decide on.
Believe me, I have been thru this and it gets expensive when you think you have purchased just the right gun (by sight/looks and feel) without knowing if you can hit anything with it, or consider the cost of ammo and accessories.
I have had guns all my life (63 years) but even with that knowledge I made mistakes when choosing for CHL when I got my first license. It's a whole different ball game than plinking of dove hunting.


When we first started looking for a carry gun for my wife, she started with a "pretty" Stainless Beretta M96. She loved the gun, but it was too big for her to carry and she had trouble managing the recoil of the .40. The Beretta became mine

So........for one person's carry weapon, we wound up making 4 firearms purchases, which I'm OK with because any day that you buy a firearm is a good day.
I still carry the Beretta.