I realized that, since my wife and I live alone, I thought it was ok to leave several pistols around our home loaded. But there is some tiny tiny chance that a maintenance person or someone else who might enter our home when we are not there could find a loaded gun and well ... someone could be injured or even killed (like the maid who allegedly brought her son work with her and he found a pistol and shot her).The concept of responsibility is black and white, my friend - you're either a responsible person when it comes to firearms, or you're not; there is no middle ground.
So ... Here's how my (and my wife's) pistols are now stored when we are not carrying them. Admittedly this takes a little time when I change what I carry but I think this is much much safer for everyone. By the way, we don't have a safe but we hide our guns well in their respective boxes.
THANKS ANDYC