mamabearCali wrote:speedsix wrote:...stupid with a gun is worse than just plain stupid...he sounds like he hadn't made up his mind that he'd USE it...and someone else HAD...
If you are going to carry a gun (especially openly!) you have to get that settled in your head. That said I am really sorry that he died, and even sorrier that his gun was used to kill others. I live about 10 miles from where he was killed. When I am not due any day now I carry concealed deeply--part of it for this very reason--the other part is that other ballet and flag football moms get bent out of shape if they see a gun--so it is better for me to just avoid the whole situation. Again just such a tragic confluence of screw ups that led to the worst possible outcome.
This is the whole issue with Open Carry. While I am not against it in in some cases (rural areas or when out in open country, etc.) those that think they will be able to freely walk around a Metro area with a gun strapped to their hip and wander into Walmart, the grocery store, or to their kid's soccer games without someone being alarmed or disturbed by it are incorrect.
I grew up in a state that had open carry and I readily practiced it out in the rural areas when target practicing, etc. But, even in the small town I lived in and being a LEO, we VERY rarely carried openly unless in uniform or with your badge displayed. It was better to be in your jeans a t-shirt with no one seeing a gun on you. Besides being a target for someone to try and take it away, if someone didn't know you were a LEO and were unfamiliar with the carry laws, they were sure to contact store personnel about it. I responded to two different open carry 'Man with a gun' calls when I was a LEO. One was gone before I arrived, but the other I had to convince to take his pistol back to the car as the store didn't want him wearing it in there. And this was back in the late 70's/early 80's when guns were not so looked on as evil, especially in an area where everyone hunted.
Bottom line, my preference is like yours and to keep it out of sight and only known to me. The concealed carry methods I use are a lot better for retention and surprise and doesn't make me a potential target for someone who wants to try and take my gun away, capable or not.