.....her first anniversary present was a sig p250 in 9mm... Then her Christmas present was a ruger LCP. I think I have sorta converted her to a more moderate point of view...still primarily democrat...but I love her and I know not to bring up the firearm issue with her parents...mom won't touch them and dad sees one and wants to take it to the range......With all that said use your better judgement and do what you feel is best for your enjoyment of the holiday season...but I say make the gift exchange/opening with your wife as private as possible so you both gain maximum enjoyment.