I'm too new here to know; do you ever get trolls on this forum?tallmike wrote:Something about this story doesn't sound right. Why would a PI sit in front of a home for 2-3 years? If they are investigating something, or someone, either they would be able to gather the info they need fairly quickly or they would find a better place to park themselves.
Also, I imagine having a PI sit in front of a home that much would, conservatively, cost in the area of $100k per year. Who pays $2-300k to investigate a spouse or insurance problem?
Unless you have a big name celebrity as a neighbor and this guy is selling pics and info to the media I'm guessing you are not giving the full or real story here. Plus your reaction, as you describe it, is not logical or reasonable.
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- Fri Jan 28, 2011 1:16 pm
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- Thu Jan 27, 2011 10:36 pm
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Sorry, but you sound so young in your reasoning.glock27 wrote:he has been around for probably 2-3 years off and on, and now that the kids are around is when i began to have an issue with it. ALL of my neighbors are aware that he is a PI and someone always calls the cops on him for sitting outside all day. he comes and goes off and on. ALL of my neighbors have approached him and asked him to leave. i live in a good neighborhood and all the neighbors are friends. there are TONS of kids who play out in the street during the day on the block. i havent gotten a chance to even put the sign i made up becauseas soon as i raise my garage and start to put the sign in my yard with the arrow he rolls down his window shares his feelings with me and takes off.
someone mentioned that i could be at risk for losing my chl? i dont understand how if he is legal to park in the street why cant i put a sign in my yard to run him off? i have no intentions on threatening the guy i just want him gone. IMHO any grown man who wants to sit on a block all day filled with kids is a perv.
he wont tell me or the cops anything about who or what he is investigating. but where he parks everyone knows what he is so he is pretty much "outted".
i have tons of pictures of his truck and plates
I have police that park beside my yard all the time to watch traffic. I don't feel threatened that they may see me do something. I don't feel the unmarked police car parked on the street is a threat to children playing in the street. Posting on the forum suggesting that a licensed PI, who the police have spoken with on your behest, may be a child molester is not flattering to your position. Really I want to see some fathomable reason, but what you have so far given does not get there.
Did you check with your home-owners association about posting a sign in your yard? Someone could taker pictures of that and cause you grief if they are not allowed.
What I am saying, and you are not hearing, is that sometimes when you escalate things and take on a cause, the law of unforeseen circumstances arises to bite you.
Peace, or at least I hope so.
- Thu Jan 27, 2011 7:41 pm
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I myself find it curious that you would react so strongly to a lawfully licensed PI (assuming you are not the subject of his investigation.) Posting signs in the yard?glock27 wrote:This is Glock27's Wife and i have a problem with it because.....
My Brother and Sister are only 10 and 11 years old..... They are living with me right now.... i am responseable for them and i do not feel one bit comfortable with a man i dont know sitting out side in a truck spying or what ever he is doing while my Brother and Sister are playing out side.... I know they are not my children but they are my world and responseabilty and i feel like i have to sit outside while they play because of this PI.... I live in a nice neighborhood and i should not feel like i have to be threatned and scared to let my Brother and Sister play outside....
I am 56 and I am going to share with you words which I wrote to a 52 year old gentleman with another issue; I feel they may apply just as well to you:
Other people on the planet are going to do and say things that I do not like. I cannot control that, but I can allow my intellect to govern my emotions rather than the reverse. I think it is best to remember that to whatever extent that you injure someone, you also injure your own inner self.
You can disregard these words, but in real life you will not be able to disregard this truth. Be good to others; it will be good for you, and by forgiving others, you forgive yourself.
You need to control yourself, not give it over to others manipulations. You choose how to react. Try to do so with graciousness and grace.