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"But i would rather not every single time i go to the range be a 30 minute conversation about how i might get shot."

Well, you can tell her you know a guy on the internet who is a member of a rifle / pistol club that has been around since 1936, has 3-5 matches (various disciplines) per month as well as informal shooting, about 1,000 members, and has never has a firearms-related injury. Twisted ankles and bee stings, yes. Shootings, no.

When I started carrying, my wife - who is not anti but not a firearms enthusiast - seemed uncomfortable. When I asked what the problem was, she asked me, "If someone came in this supermarket and robbed that bank kiosk, what would you do?" I looked around and told her I'd take cover with her, behind the shelf of canned goods - best "cover" around. Once reassured that I did not wish to intevene - was not imagining myself a "crime fighter" or "hero" and was not "looking for trouble" - she was ok with my carrying.

If you have a .22 (rifle or pistol), see if you can get your SO to go to the range with you "just this once - prove you have an open mind" - go over the Four Rules, and ask her to fire at the paper a time or two. Stress safety, reassure her you are keeping an eye out for safety, and praise her efforts, however well or poorly she shoots at first. I think you will see a change. Just my 2¢ and worth every penny. Best of luck.

Regards,
Andrew