speedsix wrote:...I'm really surprised at the number of folks here who think she did no wrong by correcting strangers in public when she wasn't in a position of authority to do so...that's arrogant and confrontational to do...we shouldn't go round trying to enforce ANY law, even littering(which, by the way, occurred on private property...a civil matter, not a crime, unless the McD's reported it...)unless we have in our pocket or pinned on our shirt the proper answer to the obvious question: "Who are YOU to tell ME what to do?" which you can reasonably expect the "perp" to ask you...if you seriously think you're going to accomplish a positive change by berating a litterbug...go for it...I'm going to go call a broker and invest in Band-Aid stock...
...those of you who think she did well...I hope you don't ever talk yourselves INTO a situation where you have to use your gun...you may find that the cops, the DA, the judge, and the jury had mothers like mine...who taught their children to MYOB...instead of going round telling folks what to do...
I don't think she did "wrong," and I don't think you really do either....she made have made a mistake....but doing "wrong" to me suggests an act that is unethical or immoral, some unacceptable infringement on the rights of others. Someone may tell me my music is too loud, to watch my language, or it's rude to wear a hat in the building, etc, and I may resent it and think they're busybodies that need to mind their own business....I might even say so in response, but such remarks are not provocation....which the courts have traditionally referred to as "fighting words," and they are not justification for me to throw objects or punches.
I agree that there is a certain amount of arrogance in attempting to correct some stranger in public and the natural response is to think "who are YOU to tell me what to do," but I also think someone who merely calls out some for littering, foul language, or whatever, should be able to make their comment without fearing a beat down. I don't have a right to act however I want in public and be free from criticism, and in fact, I think people acting out in public should expect criticism, instead of those calling them out expecting a beat down. As irritating as it may be to get called out for misbehaving in public, it's a much healthier society where that is the expectation, and beat downs for it are not tolerated.
However, I realize that our society has long passed that healthy point and is in descent, so personally, I would keep my mouth shut.