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Venus Pax wrote:Thank you. And no, my Mama did not name me Venus Pax. I use my screen names when I post on boards for security.

Venus Pax wrote:Okay, folks. I've drafted up a letter, but wanted to run it by everyone before I send it. My objective is not to apologize for carrying, but for doing so in their home without their explicit or implied consent.
Tell me what you think.

Dear sis & bil,

I was recently informed of the fact that I offended you when I entered your house with my handgun. I would like to apologize for this. Had I thought it would bother you, I would have separated the gun from its ammunition and locked one of the two in Mom’s car while in your house overnight.

Although I stand by my decision to carry outside of my home for personal and family protection, I was insensitive to the fact that your views could be different from mine.

I know that I have certain house rules that I like honored, and realize you are no different in your viewing your home as your private sanctuary. Please accept my (I would add here the words "Most Humble" ) apology.

Love,
Venus Pax

I really hope that your name isn't really Venus Pax

I'm guessing that (at this time of year) it must have been a baseball game, am I right? Either the Astros or if you drove up to the Metroplex a Rangers game or maybe even a AAA league game.

But, with that said, and the way that I have perceived this thread, that Ms. Pax needs to retreat for a short time. As suggested an apology letter (or phone call) would be appropriate. She needs to be understanding of their views, just as Christians are tolerant of sinners before they're saved.

Gradually, and I mean gradually, introduce the subject of guns over coffee or even a newscast where a successful defense of one's life has been proven. Have a short discussion about the event, and drop it.

Next time you visit, you gradually talk about it again.

This will take time, but if you allow them to make up their own mind about such things, then they will eventually 'See the light' and then you can invite them to go to the range for a session.

Shortly thereafter they'll understand.

Venus... you can catch more flies with honey and sugar than with vinegar!

Now, shall we quit all the bickering, and have civil discussions.


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TXI... your words are appreciated, here at least.


Russ

ElGato wrote:I don't think you can MAKE anyone change their mind about this, rather we should be a good example and hopefully LET them change their mind.

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