Wow- I haven't had one of those yet. I have had the occasion where I was carrying while out to dinner and the wife got a text from some friends at a bar we were near. She wanted to stop and go inside, but I was carrying so I refused but dropped her off and instead walked down the street to a bookstore (to read up on firearm magazines). When I went back to pick her up and then walk to where our car was park, the wife was irritated at me for embarrassing her by not coming in to say hi. I kept my mouth shut, and let her rant. On the walk we were approached by an "interesting" looking guy looking for money and making a B-line for us...I slid my hand inside my jacket near my hip and politely said I didn't have any. He saw this and kept walking. My wife stopped being irritated.