Me? I love my wife, been married longer than most folks (strange though not on this list,, lots of long time couples here,, ahh another thread maybe) But I would not ask her permission, nor would I be open to having her tell me not to carry, or ride motorcycles, ...or quit the Military ... I did all of those things before I met her, I might entertain a discussion, on any of those topics, but in the end, if I choose to continue,, then that is the choice..
I hope this kind of situation never comes up for us, it's been a great 22 years,,, I’m not sure what she would do after she leaves me
My answer to the question 'why do you carry a gun" and all its optional wordings is always the same... Random crime, is,, well random. If you can tell me where the next random violent crime will be, I'll make sure I don't go there. "............. I've never gotten an actual answer.