I agree with Crossfire. Perhaps the young lady did exhibit poor judgement, but that certainly doesn't excuse boorish or criminal behavior from the feller. I don't care if a woman lets a guy buy her dinner, enough drinks to float a sailor, jewelry, flowers and anything else... Even if she goes with him to a private location and they start towards the act.... If she changes her mind and says no, it's off.Crossfire wrote:Texas CHL Forum is one of the LAST places I would expect to see the "blame the victim" mentality.Beiruty wrote:What is blind date and how one ends with a female in private place, his place, her place or a hotel room? The lady has lack of judgment and some of the responsibility to be vurnable.
I don't think it's right for a woman to treat a man like I just described either....but the fact that small fortune was spent doesn't translate into an automatic next step.
She has the right to say no. A man also has the right to say no. Either way, it should be respected.