I am in agreement with Crossfire. While I intend absolutely no disrespect to you in any way shape or form. Have her take lessons from someone else. Pay for the absolute beginner class and go from there. One little step at a time. At her pace.
I remember quite clearly the discussion the wife and I had after acquisition of my Harley. She wondered what it would be like to drive instead of just ride. She asked if I could teach her. I'd rather pet a shark! I took the basic motorcycle safety/operation course and had her take it with me. That way I was there, but in no way shape or form involved in her training. After she laid the little Honda 250 down on the second day (for the second time) she decided she was perfectly happy riding behind me while I drove and even appreciated the considerable effort it can take.
Your goal is a little different, though. It really didn't matter to me whether we got the wife her own bike or not. You want your wife to shoot. First you must completely understand that there are those among us who will never shoot, just as there are those who disagree with CHL. The ultimate decision is your wife's. For better or worse. If in the end she decides not to carry and that your carrying is sufficient, take it as a sign of her respect and appreciation for all you do. She is, after all, trusting you with her life.
Good luck, amigo, and I hope all works out well for everyone!
Search found 1 match
Return to “Fiance doesn't think she needs a gun”
Search found 1 match
• Page 1 of 1
- by lonewolf
- Tue Oct 20, 2009 7:21 pm
- Forum: General Gun, Shooting & Equipment Discussion
- Topic: Fiance doesn't think she needs a gun
- Replies: 53
- Views: 6826
Search found 1 match
• Page 1 of 1
Return to “Fiance doesn't think she needs a gun”
Jump to
- Administrative
- ↳ Site Announcements, Questions & Suggestions
- ↳ Test Area
- ↳ Technical Tips, Questions & Discussions (Computers & Internet)
- Resources & Links
- ↳ CHL Checklist
- ↳ Government resources & CHL-related links
- ↳ DPS Updates
- National Rifle Association, Texas Firearms Coalition & Good Guys United
- ↳ National Rifle Association
- ↳ Texas Firearms Coalition
- ↳ Good Guys United
- General
- ↳ General Gun, Shooting & Equipment Discussion
- ↳ General Texas CHL Discussion
- ↳ Gun and/or Self-Defense Related Political Issues
- ↳ Rifles & Shotguns
- ↳ New to CHL?
- ↳ The "Waiting Room"
- ↳ Other States
- ↳ Shooting Ranges
- ↳ Reloading Forum
- ↳ Never Again!!
- ↳ Competitive Shooting
- ↳ Hunting Photos
- ↳ Books & Videos
- ↳ Off-Topic
- ↳ Ladies
- ↳ Anti-gun propaganda and other lies!
- ↳ Second Amendment Cases
- Day-To-Day
- ↳ Holsters & Accessories
- ↳ LEO Contacts & Bloopers
- ↳ "How To" Tips
- ↳ Job Board
- ↳ Camp's Corner
- ↳ Prayer Requests & Updates
- ↳ The Crime Blotter
- ↳ Self-Defense Reports
- ↳ Training & Practice
- Instructors , Classes and Training
- ↳ LTC Class Schedules & Locations
- ↳ Basic & Advanced Training (Non-LTC)
- ↳ Past Classes
- ↳ Instructors' Corner
- ↳ General
- Market: Buy, Sell, Trade - Please check the minimum posting requirements in Forum Rule 13
- ↳ Holsters, Accessories, Reloading Equipment & Supplies
- ↳ Firearms
- ↳ FFL Holders
- ↳ Closed Items
- ↳ Commercial Vendor Bargains and Deal
- ↳ Non-Firearm related items
- Community Service Announcements
- ↳ General Announcements
- ↳ Animal Rescue
- ↳ Prior Year TexasCHLforum Days
- ↳ 2012 TexasCHLforum Day at PSC
- ↳ 2010 TexasCHLforum Day at PSC
- ↳ 2009 TexasCHLforum Day at PSC
- ↳ TexasCHLforum Day at PSC 2008
- ↳ Feedback - 2007 TexasCHLforum Day at PSC
- ↳ 2007 TexasCHLforum Day
- Legislative
- ↳ General Legislative Discussions
- ↳ 2019 Texas Legislative Session
- ↳ Governor's Abbott's "School and Firearm Safety Action Plan"
- ↳ Crimes on Campus
- ↳ Prior Session: 2005 - 2017
- ↳ 2015 Legislative Session
- ↳ 2013 Texas Legislative Session
- ↳ 2013 Calls-To-Action
- ↳ 2011 Texas Legislative Session
- ↳ 2009 Texas Legislative Session
- ↳ 2007 Texas Legislative Session
- ↳ 2005 Texas Legislative Session
- ↳ Goals for 2007
- ↳ Concealed Carry on College Campuses
- ↳ 2017 Texas Legislative Session
- ↳ 2017 Legislative Wish List
- ↳ Federal
- Elections
- ↳ Prior Year Elections
- ↳ 2012 Texas & Federal Elections
- ↳ Texas - 2008
- ↳ Federal - 2008
- ↳ 2014 Elections