Frazzled I respect your opinion and greatly appreciate your willingness to post it herefrazzled wrote:1. I am less keen on a bunch of adults around my kids with firearms, even CHLers. Simple math. I am concerned the chance of one of the little demon seed can get a ahold of it is higher than the chances the adult is going to defend my kids from a BG.austinrealtor wrote:Curious .....frazzled wrote:I vote #3.
1. Its more relevant to the issue of CHLers as there's more there. Columbine to the contrary, public schools are safer than your average college campus.
2. I'm much more ambivalent about public schools. It definitely clouds the issue a bit to me.
Why is the "public school" (and I assume you mean K-12 grades since you're OK with college campus carry) issue clouded for you and why does the supposed relative safety of one venue mean it should be excluded from legal carry? A police department charity drive with 25 armed police officers handing out goodies to school children who bring in canned goods for the needy in a grocery store parking lot is even safer than your average elementary school, but I'm legally allowed to carry there.
This is balanced by the efficacy of a school employee being there to stop a Columbine cold.
2. I've also seen one too many CHLers that shouldn't have a CHL to begin with to feel safe with them around my kids. Odds are low but its a math thing again. I view most of the posters on this board as more up to speed as it were, but I've been at the range with too many yahoos who achieved CHL status to be comfortable in this context.
I should posit this by, as far as my kids are concerned I don't recognize anyone else having rights, when it comes to the safety of my kids. CHLs are for adults to protect themselves. I'll be honest and state I don't care if you are protected or not when it statistically increases the chances of harm to my children.
3. Again I'll not I'm very ambivalent on this one. As such I'd keep it to college campus carry where everyone involved is an adult.
My problem with it is that by you forcing me to disarm to make you feel safer about your kids, you make me feel less safe about my kids. One of the most "uneasy" moments I have in any day is picking up my kids from pre-school unarmed and going through the long process of walking out the the parking lot, putting them both in the car, strapping them in their car seats etc. I'm a SITTING DUCK for about 5-10 minutes. Is it LIKELY that I'll be acosted at that exact moment? No. But it's not likely that I'll EVER need to use a gun in self-defense, so why carry one at all?
And before anyone says "just put your gun back in your holster when you get to the parking lot" - try that with a 3-year-old and a 1-year-old in a busy parking lot - if I don't have a tight grip on BOTH of them then I run the greater risk of one of them darting into the busy parking lot.
Also being forced to unconceal in my car every day puts me at unreasonable risk of someone seeing my gun and calling in "Man with a gun" to the police. I'm very discreet about it, but it's impossible to unconceal in a car without SOME possibility of being seen.
I fully understand the very real fear of "guns near children" but why does that fear trump my fear of being unarmed and vulnerable around my own children?