KinnyLee wrote: And I'm very interested in learning stick fighting.
Stick AND knife most often go together, so you'll probably get both.
Don't overlook "Cane", (a personal favorite of mine). But few MA's teach it any longer. You'll have a blast regardless of which you choose. Anyone that has access to a free demonstration/seminar should take advantage of it.
Remember, a gun should be the last "layer" of your self defense plan.
Another benefit of attending such a class is to see how various weapons are used. This is "key" to understanding how to defend against them.
I guess I should stop now, as I have managed to take this thread way off subject. Sorry.