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I wouldn't try to "let her see the logic" because they are not logical. Woman's mind works very differently. They often cannot be reasoned with; they rely on their feelings a lot. If you listen to them all the time, you are a push-over; if you don't listen to them, you are labeled as "not understanding."

What you need to do is to be yourself, meaning if that is what you believe in, stick to your idea/ideal etc. She doesn't like it and wants to make a fuss? Fine, tell her to get used to it. No argument, no reasoning.

Mine had the similar reaction at first, then quickly saw the light. Once or twice she asked me if I carried. Now when we go out, it's my cell phone, car key, wallet and gun.