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I second to Excaliber's thinking on the muddy Castle Doctrine in your case. You would be treading very muddy water. You couldn't legally shoot him if he reasonably believes you still have his stuff in your house. How could you argue that in court? You may just take the "rather judged by 12 than carried by 6."

I would also highly recommend Gavin De Becker's "The Gift of Fear," which is absolutely brilliant book on this very subject - how to deal with obsessive people. To many of them, every little dossier you build, positive or negative, is to goad him to push even further.

Read the book and you'll see.