It's sad that your money is tied up and you're without your gun and thank you for alerting the forum to this presently unnamed scam.drjoker wrote:
....I bought a gun on a well-known gun auction site (NOT gunsamerica but another one) and the seller fraudulently took my money order but did not ship the gun...
OTOH, congratulations are in order for apparently persuading your wife that you can have a gun. We hope that this will all work itself out in your favor and that justice will be served.