Good call. Some talking points to consider:Hoi Polloi wrote:I would pray for guidance.
If you are led to stay, I would then prayerfully and respectfully ask for a private meeting with the pastor about "a difficulty" you've been facing. I wouldn't say what for so he doesn't make up his mind before speaking with you. Then I'd politely lay out what you know and why this is a problem for you. Then I'd make a decision on how to move forward.
Who owns the church?
What did the owner say about carrying weapons? Luke 22:35-36
Why would the owner say such things to his disciples?
Then the practical considerations and the law. IMO if you can't get past number one and two then you should prayerfully consider the attitude of your shepherd(s), what their authority is and whether you need to stay.