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If more people would state to the questioner that some questions are quite simply none of their business, then perhaps such questions would ultimately stop being asked...and yes, it could be done in a polite manner. Often, the questioner is mandated by their boss as in a nurse being directed to ask. It's not the nurse's fault, so be kind...

Being asked questions that aren't germane to the situation is a pet peeve of mine. When asked for my address or phone number or even zip code by merchants, my standard response is a cheerful: "Make one up" and most of the time the questioner laughs and seem to get why I respond like this. I know the clerk asking isn't being nosy, just following management's directive. And, yes I know, in some cases management is working on demographics, but I guess I'm kinda ornery when it comes to being asked questions that aren't relevant to the situation.

If "anyone" asks inappropriate questions do you feel the need to answer them?

Of course not!

Being in the medical profession doesn't elevate the questioner beyond reproach.

And standing up for yourself doesn't have to be done in a confrontational manner. It's actually quite easy to calmly inform the questioner you're not 'comfortable' with their questions. And, if they come back with an attempt to 'guilt trip' you with silliness like the doctor will be "dinged" if you don't answer, just shrug your shoulders...

Just because someone asks a question doesn't compel you to answer...