I'm an appendix carrier. I move between 12:00 and 1:00. It's what I've found worked for me so now I've started buying holsters specifically for appendix. It made all the difference for me sitting for long periods of time, especially in the car. Many people are afraid to try that position. I get that. There are sensitive things in that area but more importantly, there are large arteries there (I say more importantly because that impacts men and women). There are tons of good articles and videos centered around appendix carry if that interests you.
I also second the pants comment. The style of pants, the material and especially wearing slightly larger pants can make carrying so much more enjoyable.
It takes time. I still try new things out (at home) just to make sure I don't develop a habit of leaving my gun at home because my setup happens to be bothering me.
Good luck!
