The Annoyed Man wrote:So I think you need to talk to some of your closer friends, and ask them, "Be honest with me, do I seem to ask for trouble?" It may well be that they see something in you that you either can't, or won't see in yourself, and their input might be instructive. But be prepared to hear something that you're not going to like hearing, and also be honest enough to deal with it appropriately if you do.
I think this is good advice. Obviously
something is going on that if you don't fix it could lead to disaster. Best to you N2.