Unfortunately, your "exit" may be a long and difficult one. People with these types of issues tend to never get over stuff and keep popping up in your life for a long time. My ex-wife has a thing for "tough guys". Even though our kids together are all over 18 and we have been divorced more than 16 years, it is still a constant struggle to keep the chaos of her life out of mine.Fangs wrote:Wildbill - I'm guessing you're saying that I should just kick her to the curb no mercy style and move on? While I don't think that's a bad plan, I've never been one to brutal with other's emotions when a soft but firm approach will get the job done... and I still need info on the guy out of her. Also, I didn't expect her to be entirely over him in this short of a time frame. I know that stuff can take some time. Though I do agree that if she'd rather protect him than me, then I need to get out.
Run away as fast as you can and don't look back.