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loscar141 wrote: I unload the gun when I get home because that's what I'm comfortable with. I remove it from the holster and keep it close by for just in case.

The better solution would be to fix your mental block over having a loaded gun in a holster that you're not wearing. Apparently you're OK with having a loaded gun holstered on your body, so you realize that the holstered gun isn't just going to go off. It's still not going to go off if it's sitting on your desk or nightstand or something. And since you said that you don't live with anyone else, you don't even have the excuse of some unauthorized person getting access to the gun (not that merely unloading the gun would be sufficient in this instance).

Stop trying to find a equipment solution to a training problem.

1) Why not just buy a Glock?
2) Why all the loading and unloading? When you get home and don't want to carry the gun, just remove the holster + gun. When you leave the next day, just put on the holster + gun. No unnecessary loading & unloading.
3) You shouldn't rely on the trigger position to tell you if the gun has an empty chamber. You should only do that if you actually check the chamber.