PeteCamp wrote: Here is a simple truth to remember: When you are carrying a lethal weapon, EVERY scenario can turn into a deadly force scenario.
No, you said it. I quoted you.
PeteCamp wrote:I think you are obviously ignoring the clear implications of what I said. Obviously, it is not owning or carrying a gun per se that is a danger. It is the simple truth that any fight can turn deadly if there is a deadly weapon involved. Since you have grandchildren, I would think you should understand the risks of a scuffle or fistfight with a much younger man when you are carrying a deadly weapon on your side. This is certainly not a condemnation of carrying. It is a call to use good judgement when confronting idiots such as the OP described.
As to a country of wimps. Perhaps. But surely someone is not a wimp if he doesn't choose to correct every instance of bad manners he encounters every day with the risk of having to pull a deadly weapon to end the lesson? Standing up for what is right? Certainly. Not being bullied? Absolutely. Dealing with a waiter? No problem. Going to prison over some stupid clown who runs his mouth and forces me to act even more stupidly than he and draw a weapon? Not hardly.
You are still saying that the fact that someone has in their posession a deadly weapon, that this makes the encounter deadly if it escalates. Using your words, yes, fistfights can be deadly, so your insistence that our handguns make them more so is in fact nonsense. ALL encounters can turn deadly. The presence of a firearm does not make it more deadly. The presence of a firearm makes them more fair and equal, and in probably more cases than you would admit, the presence of a firearms makes them more civil.
I did not use the term wimps. I do not accept the implication that just because I carry I should allow others to continue being rude to me.
I do understand the issues the OP had and I agree totally with what he did. It could have been handled better, but he is learning. Teach him. Do not tear him down.
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