When I was in high school ('86?) coming home from my part time job I was stopped once and they asked to search the entire car so I said ok. I had nothing to hide and I was a teenager vs. two cop cars and several officers.

I don't think most LEO's are Buford T. Justice types trying to throw their weight around. I think they are just gathering information and what they get from you, even if not incriminating, might help them connect the dots about something important.
Of course we could all avoid being questioned by just not breaking the law in the first place.