Divided Attention wrote:RPB wrote:[I'll still never understand "shopping" trying on dresses for 5 hours, not buying anything, and enjoying it ....Me neither, but I can spend 2 hours trying on pistols and get lost in feed stores for quite a while looking at tack and the like and come home with nothing but the memory of the feel of a nicely balanced weapon in my hand and the amazing smell of new leather and alfalfa
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I don't know. Every time I do that I come home with a strong desire to go out and buy the pistol (or saddle) next time out. It can be hard to resist after the second or third time looking.
But I wanted to say I agreed with your earlier post also. Talking with the spouse to find out why she is worried is the first step. Then letting her decide how, or even if, she wants to work through the issue is second.