Here is a poll that I believe will help people new to CHL.
A lot of people have said they were self-conscious about carrying when they first got their CHL, but after a few weeks or months this unease disappeared as they realized people just don't seem to notice. I include myself, I've been carrying for about 18 months now and don't even think about it anymore, but I had to get over the mental hurdle of carrying and believing everyone was looking at me before it became comfortable.
I don't believe anyone ever spotted me, maybe someone has but they never brought it to my attention. People just don't pay close attention to what's on your belt.
So, anyone ever been outed in public? Spouses and children don't count, they have access the general public doesn't.
[Edited to make it a stranger.]