I can't claim to speak for any police officer, but I've been on calls where I've seen that your statement that police "are required to take the side of the woman" be proven false many times. Understanding that, statistically, men ARE the offenders more often than not, I've seen police officers observe injuries on men without corresponding injuries on the woman, and SHE gets taken to jail. If it's a "he said, she said", where the facts are clearly in dispute and there is no other proof, then the detectives get the opportunity to talk with both parties, and no one goes to jail.VMI77 wrote:No, it's not. Reread pawpaws original post: the police are essentially required to take the side of the woman on a claim of abuse and the man has to prove he didn't do it. If I assault you and it's you said I said (and you're not politically connected) there is no immediate presumption in favor of either one of us.cb1000rider wrote:I don't care what category it's in. It's a violent crime and indicates a lack of good judgment. In my mind, a propensity toward violence and a lack of good judgment should probably cost you firearm ownership for a while. Sure, due process can fall on it's face, but if we stand on that alone, why not let out all the criminals? We've had death penalty cases without any physical evidence, but still a lot of people continue to support that as valid legal process and appropriate justice. Taking firearms for a while is certainly less permanent.Pawpaw wrote: I will argue that it's not right. Why is "domestic abuse" the only misdemeanor that will cost you your 2nd amendment rights? If it's that serious a crime, it should be a felony.
Those indicating how easy it is to pin the tail on the donkey, isn't that the same with assault or just about any "I'll sign the complaint" crime? A conviction should.. And I say should.. require more than just that.
Now the whole protective order thing, that's a bit more one sided and ridiculous.
I have no doubt pawpaw saw what he saw, but the times are changing and with changing times, police policies change. What he saw is not necessarily the way it is everywhere, today.
Regardless, this thread is not about the 'fairness' of domestic violence arrests, it's about the law that takes away a domestic violence offender's right to have a firearm, and how to implement that law in a non-confrontational way.