I remember how both my wife and I were so scared during the time between her preliminary tests and her biopsy. It's quite stressful on everyone.carlson1 wrote:... She is very scared and nervous. There is no doubt this has shook her faith. I have found it very difficult to Pastor my wife in this matter because I am also worried.
Please don't take this wrong because I mean it in the most gentle and caring way: perhaps it's time to call in some reinforcements so you can concentrate on supporting your loved-one instead of taking on a pastoral role. We often think (and I speak from experience on this) that we can take on more than our role as a husband, a son, etc. and that job is overwhelming enough when it comes to life-and-death situations, whether they be immediate or potential ones.
Good thoughts and prayers y'alls way.