snatchel wrote:Anygun-- it's not that I disagree with your principles, and I admire your tenacity and that despite modern culture, you stand strong in your convictions.
My point is that we, as a conservative republican party, are going to have to eventually make a choice. We will either agree to compromise a d find middle ground in order to get a qualified candidate elected, or watch our party wil away into history. You mention giving up gun rights--- well, here is how I look at it:
If we choose to stand against any tolerance of moral opinion regarding gay rights, abortion, etc..... Than we WILL lose our gun rights. Our staunch stance for more integrity will continue to get democrats elected...and they will surely strip the 2nd rights we have managed to keep thus far.
I know a lot of folks have gone so far as to say they would welcome a civil war, uprising, or something like thAt. To those who say they would rather fight a war than allow a gay couple's to marry I only ask this: have you been in battle?
Please. Be tolerant. Understand that the idea of democracy & freedom that we hold onto with our dying breath extends to those that you disagree from a moral standpoint.
One last thing-- this needs to be put out there-- morality & Christianity are not one and the same.
Snatchel, I agree. I don't understand the Conservative stance on gay marriage - it's probably the only Conservative viewpoint I don't hold. Who cares if gay people want to get married? It affects my marriage not at all.
Personally, I think the entire gay marriage fight is being fought wrong. Gay marriage is already a right, per the due process clause in the 14th Amendment. Government cannot deny a right or privilege to any American that it gives to any other American. Government already grants over 1,000 rights to heterosexual couples who marry. Per the 14th Amendment, gay couples have due process of that same right.
Their problem is they are fighting this as a civil rights issue, and framing it as a right that doesn't currently exist. They are saying "Give us a new right" when they should be saying "Stop denying us a right which already exists". People will be more amenable to a group saying their rights are being denied than they will be to a group demanding a new right be created.
Going state by state and slugging it out in that manner is a bad tactical move. Saying to the states that this right must be enforced due to an already existing Constitutional Amendment would be a much better tactical plan.
That said, government should also not force any religion into marrying gay couples. If the tenants of a particular church forbid gay marriage, so be it. That church has a right to its beliefs and has a right to not marry gay couples in violation of those beliefs. A gay couple can find a church which has no opposition to it, or can go to the courthouse and be married by a Justice of the Peace, or go on a cruise and get married by the ship's Captain. Forcing a church to marry gay couples against that church's beliefs is a violation of the First Amendment. There's no way a person can be in favor of the separation of church and state and still want to force churches to do so without being a hypocrite.
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