speedsix said
...let me assure you that those of the first group have once been those of the second group...and our hair and clothing styles, habits, piercings, and tats made just as poor an impression on our adults as they do on the adults today...
...as folks progress from the second group into the first group, they pick up useful info (called life experience) that help them see more than just the surface and realize when something needs looking into...or not...the tats, style of dress, etc just added to the suspicious actions and lack of having obeyed the law before knocking doors asking for our time and money...
That's sooo true as I pointed out to my 16 year old niece who now understands.
The "old people" who might have been wild-haired hippy outcasts had parents who had crazy hairstyles and danced wildly, and their parents listened to crazy band music and had crazy hair and clothing styles
I don't care if it's 1920s flapper dresses or 1950s Ducktail hair styles or 1960s/70s "Mod" clothes ... we do understand, and as we get older, we see our old parents who don't understand .... understood more than we knew they did.
The older I was, the smarter my dad got.
It's about
"appropriateness", I once took a girl to church, she wore a miniskirt so short ... that was our last and only date ...
Don't come to my door tats a-showin pants on the ground with no literature pretending you are a salesman. Don't come to a job interview in cutoffs and flipflops.
If you want to go a scuba diving, you dress the part to do it successfully, if you want to sell stuff, you dress the part to do so successfully, if you want to get hired, you ... If a person doesn't care enough to do that, why should people care enough about him earning points selling magazines to earn a trip to Baghdad? So, he won't sell much and I assume he WANTS to fail. Once again, I'd question his mentality or drug use, and why should I open the door or not call police on the illegal activity?
Sure, I'll dress differently to go to a "sock hop" or a rodeo/stock show ... I wouldn't go try to sell things in socks or smelling like a sweaty horse though. It's about
"appropriateness"
Otherwise you should know you'll set of an alarm of "Something stinks/doesn't smell right ... Something's fishy (Tip: putting shrimp on your jeans while baiting a hook to get in an hour of fishing... before going to school ... not a good idea. Don't ask how I know) Some people find it "out of place/inappropriate."