It's not a question of being afraid.Kalel wrote:Guess I just see it diffferently. I do not see any reason that we should be afraid to discuss the topic and show support.
There are many things that civilized people do not discuss outside their immediate family and trusted counselors, for example, their medical issues, finances, sex life, or marital problems.
It is prudent to avoid discussing certain topics in certain situations. In particular, since most people need to work for a living, it is prudent to avoid doing something that puts one's job or livelihood at risk without good reason. Jawboning about something controversial that is not related to work is no way to advance your career.
It's simply polite and good sense to avoid stirring up controversy among relatives or in-laws.
You don't need a license for free speech, but you also don't need a license to make yourself look like - Jim