JALLEN wrote:Here is a scenario:
You and a small group of friends meet at a restaurant for dinner. On the way in, you notice a clearly invalid 30.06 sign near the door. Your pistol is concealed, so no worries.
During dinner, you are asked to pass the catsup and, half standing, reach across the large table to hand it to another. A few minutes later, the hostess stops by and tells you that your pistol was noticed while you were stretched out across the table, that weapons are not allowed in the restaurant, and you must either take it to your car, and would then be welcome to return, or leave if not.
1. Do you take the pistol out to the car and return, weaponless? Or
2. Point out that the sign out front is non compliant, therefore meaningless, and return to your chicken fried steak? Or
3. Leave promptly and do not return, leaving the bill unpaid? The others finish their meal and pay their portion. Or
4. The entire party leaves right then, without paying?
At the point the hostess tells me weapons are not allowed, the sign is no longer an issue; I've been given verbal notice so I have to leave. However, given that the sign was invalid, and that is why I came in with my pistol in the first place, my initial response would be to ask the hostess how she would like to handle the bill for the dinner. Since I'm not being allowed to remain and finish it, I'm certainly not paying for it, and if I leave, we're all leaving. So it's her choice. I will absolutely leave right then, not paying for a meal I'm not being allowed to finish, or I will finish my meal, with my firearm in it's holster, pay the check and leave, never to return. I'll abide by whichever route she or the management decide to take. If the hostess or management start to argue the issue, I'll also point out why their sign is invalid,why I was within my rights to ignore it, and what they should do to prevent issues such as this in the future.
In short, I would be very cooperative, letting them know that if
they insist that I leave before I finish my meal, I will absolutely do that, but I won't pay for a meal
they won't let me finish. This changes the discussion from being about guns to being about their allowing me to either finish (and pay for) the meal, or leave immediately; they are in the driver's seat and I'm being cooperative. If they continue to insist I leave immediately
and pay the check, I might go ahead and do that, or I might just walk out without paying. It would depend entirely on how heated things got. One thing I would
not do in that situation is stay.