"dihappy wrote:"I disagree with saying cops will treat you with the same respect you show them..."speedsix wrote:...I was always amused(not amazed) that no matter what violation I stopped a citizen for, they always had something else that they thought I should be doing...and weren't bashful about telling me so..."Why aren't you out there catching REAL criminals?" and so forth...my answer was "Because you have made it necessary for me to stop and deal with you instead because of your speeding, headlight out, or whatever the violation"...it's childish to do wrong, get caught at it, then try to pick apart the officer who stopped you...it's mature to own up , take the warning or ticket, and go on with life...
...attitudes ARE important...an officer will usually respond to one, be it good or bad...with the same...not always, but usually...we should own up to our mistakes and deal with them, instead of lyin' and denyin'...and pointing the blame elsewhere...I've been warned a lot more than written in the last 35 years...because I honestly admit my fault in a friendly, respectful manner, and ask for mercy when I 've sinned...only once did that not get me a warning...in a school zone that I hadn't realized I'd entered...and where it comes to kids, I understand the strictness...cops are people, too, and will treat us with the same respect we extend to them...with few exceptions...
*...if you mean not all cops handle themselves well...I agree...if you mean you expect for a person to be rude and arrogant to an officer, and have his attitude still disposed towards giving him a warning, and not a ticket, and being understanding as to why he violated a traffic or other law...not many human beings will give us their best once we've shown them our worst...I'm not talking about videos, but actual life experiences on the street...give ANYONE a hard time as they try to do their job, and you'll find yourself getting smaller portions...I've stopped a belligerant, overbearing, down-your-throat attitude from a cop in mid-sentence and gotten the officer's apology after I corrected his attitude...and I had run a red light...and I didn't get a ticket...there are exceptions to all rules...but I said USUALLY an officer will be as friendly and cooperative as you are...and it's NOT unprofessional for him to become very businesslike and go strictly by the book once someone has shown him disrespect and attitude...it'll happen in a hospital, a hamburger joint, an automotive repair shop, and it will surely happen on the street...
"Cops should always remain calm and professional, there are a few videos showing cops doing just that."
.*..they can do that...and still write you a ticket...because of the way you treated them...instead of a friendly warning...
"They shouldn't lose their cool when someone asks a question, or even gets upset. If you can't deal with people, you applied to the wrong job buddy."
*...I agree...his choice of words is always his responsibility...but being friendly and understanding is not required when a "customer" is not polite and cooperative...
"How many of us would lose our jobs if we quit acting professional when dealing with a problem customer? "
*...again...rudeness and yelling is not professional...but you don't get any more than a person has to give you when you treat them rudely...cops are no different..."the breaks" and "benefit of the doubt" and "extra onions" can be freely given...or withheld...and, even though he continued "acting professional"..I've got a ticket I didn't have to have...because I treated him badly and alienated his good will!!!
"Yes, there are amazing men and women LEOs out there. But the few who somehow got hired with their attitudes and power trips make some of us leary when dealing with any Leo.
*...I'll bet we can agree on this...every LEO SHOULD approach us with a professional, business-like, respectful manner...how we respond to him/her will surely affect his/her decisions with respect to whether the ticket is issued or only a warning...