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by Venus Pax
Sun Nov 30, 2008 5:59 pm
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: Crisis Building in Neighborhood
Replies: 39
Views: 5643

Re: Crisis Building in Neighborhood

austin wrote:The General can be a leader of young men here, something he is capable of doing. He is obviously there every day and can be a force for good in these young men's lives.

Or he can sweep the problem under the rug and suffer the consequences.

He can choose one or the other.

IMHO, he needs to befriend the young men and then mold them.
Befriending these kids would have been the ounce of prevention before the problems started. If he steps in and takes a gentle approach now, these adolescents are going to escalate. Undisciplined adolescents tend to mistake kindness for weakness.

I have seen many situations where a male teen's behavior was tempered by an older male in the child's life, but it only worked because this individual was present before trouble ever started.

Other than contacting the agencies that deal with these issues, I can't see a real out for this guy. The person that recommended alarm systems & surveillance cameras gave good advice.

On my campus, we get anonymous calls every so often about kids in our zone causing mischief during the school day. If they are enrolled, the officer picks them up. If not, he begins an investigation as to why they are in the area if they are not enrolled in school.
I'm guessing this isn't procedure in other areas.
by Venus Pax
Sat Nov 29, 2008 11:58 pm
Forum: General Texas CHL Discussion
Topic: Crisis Building in Neighborhood
Replies: 39
Views: 5643

Re: Crisis Building in Neighborhood

Excaliber wrote:Your friend will continue to have issues as long as the kids are focused on him. The immediate challenge is to refocus the kids' interests elsewhere.

Has anyone tried talking to the kids themselves, either directly or through a neighborhood emissary?

A direct but nonconfrontational approach is often more successful than legal measures in situations like this.
In my experience, adolescents that would threaten the safety of an elderly couple do not respond to discussions with an adult. For that to work, the adult has to be a meaningful and stable part of the child's life, and it doesn't appear that these children have that.

Are they actually living in the uncle's house, or are they living by themselves?
I think CPS definitely needs to be involved, but these types of problems seldom go well.

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