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I always take the position that I am right and going to do what I feel is right unless someone can give me a logical and non-emotion based reason for changing my mind. It is a position of strength because I must know the other persons arguments as well as the facts and truth of any given subject. Learn everything you can and do not give up. She will except it or she will not. That has nothing to do with who you are or what you believe. My wife was the same way. And while she is not a "gun nut" she is supportive of me being one. I have, for years, pointed out the reasons and situations for her every time she asked. I give her explanations, patience, and understanding. Mutual respect is only ever gained thru strength. If she cannot respect you and your values then she cannot except you and will never respect you. That is just the way I see it. Love her, respect her, listen to her and make your own decisions while allowing her to make her own. Most peoples bark is much worse than their bite. That is just my opinion.