Thanks for providing the additional detail. As usual, there was a lot more to the story and it's another reminder that no single strategy or tactic is applicable in all circumstances. The course of action you chose worked out well for you, and by definition, since it got the result you intended, it was an effective way to manage that situation at that time.Dragonfighter wrote:Excalibur,
Very thoughtful, but here is where knowing all the details makes all the difference. The side door in question is a practically useless entry/exit due to the recliner situated in front of it so his coming through there is not likely...we have other exits. While he is concentrating on that door he is blind to the other potals and illuminated by area lights. The wife also armed and maintained control of the interior while on the phone with police advising them where I was with description and advising the dispatcher that I would disarm once I saw that he had us both covered.
I know every nook and cranny of my wooded lot and also understand that rinky dink house would not stand a whole lot of assault. Tactics and SA have also been part of my entire adult life (I won't bore you with details) and there IS an advantage to concealment and cover open air rather than hunkering down in some circumstances. The layout of the house would place the BG between me and the kids in two of the three entries. No, I'm not going to wait for the fight to come inside...especially if there is more than one.
Added in Edit: By the time the police had arrived he was seated, cross legged with fingers interlocked at the back of his head.
As always, I think it's productive to think through events that happen to others and consider how we would handle them if they happened to us. This gives us an internal "library" of plans that can be called upon quickly instead of trying to figure out a novel solution under the pressure of a fast breaking incident.
My concern in planning for a similar situation is that, by going outside, I would be exposed to attack from additional individuals I didn't see in time, or that an intoxicated individual (who could turn out to be a neighbor's teenager who got drunk for the first time) would lunge at me when challenged and force me to make a deadly force call instead of seeing the wisdom of surrender as the offender in your instance did. Situations like that happen a lot, and, although a deadly force response might be legally justified in the situation after I had chosen to put myself in that position, it might well not be necessary if I stay inside to protect what's really important and let the PD manage the outside issues.
If I can confidently protect my family inside and the bad guy stays outside until the police respond, I see that as a no lose. If he does something stupid with them outside, he's their problem, not mine, and they've got immunities and legal protections that I don't. If he makes entry before that, especially if he couldn't quickly get past an obstacle at the door, he would be in a tactical and legal position that I see as much easier to manage with a lot fewer questions and much less risk of legal issues and costs.
Your mileage may vary.