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BillT wrote:...To pass judgement on someone and to suggest moral changes because they were upset and sarcastic is retaliation and is putting yourself at the same level. I don't think that is a right that comes with being a Senior Member nor is it very mature...

Can't really speak to passing 'judgment' by anyone else - but I have not done so. My suggestion that some changes are in order still stands however. The crux is this - carrying a deadly weapon IS a moral responsibility. Drinking, being involved with drugs, and other reckless behavior - while surely true it is directly on the person doing the acts - nontheless it impacts the rest of us. It is not sanctimony - it simply notice of behavior that may end up in a train wreck. The OP got some advice - I'm guessing the advice was not quite what they were seeking. Bottom line - if you mess up, own it - recognize the behavior that got you there - and don't get all bent because of advice sought isn't quite what you wanted to hear! An open forum is going to get a range of responses - from 'you've messed up bigtime' to 'a little dope shouldn't be a problem'. Gleen what you can here.

Max - you have the advice above on your issue. Here is a little grandfather advice based on stuff and life experiences that you have no idea about. If you are that close to drug culture - you need a lifestyle change and new friends! Best of luck with your problem and welcome to the forum.