Venus Pax wrote:A man gets his drawers in a wad when you brush up against him on a Metro bus. (I don't imagine Metro buses are the roomiest of locations.) Said man charges you. What are you supposed to think? He's running to give you a big bear hug?
It's not exactly my first thought.
I wasn't there. The news reports that I've seen have been very strange and in some respects contradictory.
If a guy is verbally threatening me, I am going to make some attempt to gain some distance - i.e. to get away. Even in the confines of a bus, I would back off and hope that the other guy would be satisfied that he "ran me off."
For all we know, maybe the shooter in this case did something like that. It might be a reason why he was no billed. But we just don't know. The reporting in this case has been woefully incompetent.
I would never consider drawing a knife. If the other guy is much bigger than me, I'd be worried that he could take it away and use it against me. Even if he isn't, I have no skill at knife fighting whatsoever, and would probably end up on the wrong end of it.
In some circumstances, depending on the other guy's behavior, disparity of force if any, etc., I might get to a point where I was in reasonable fear of an imminent threat of serious injury or death, and resort to a gun.
But it depends on a whole lot of things that we have not been informed about in this case.